BENIGN

ADJECTIVE:

1. Of a kind and gentle disposition.
2. Showing gentleness and mildness. See Synonyms at kind 1.
3. Tending to exert a beneficial influence; favorable: a policy with benign consequences for the economy. See Synonyms at favorable.
4. Having little or no detrimental effect; harmless: a chemical additive that is environmentally benign.
5. Medicine Of no danger to health; not recurrent or progressive; not malignant: a benign tumor.

Last weekend I was part of a scavenger hunt. I was holding the clue for a group of people to FIND. They made their way through the tavern and asked almost everyone BUT me if they had the clue. I have met these people before on more than one occasion. Friend of a friend sort of situation. Anyway, they FINALLY asked if I had their clue. I gave them their clue. They moved on to the next stop of the hunt.
I later met up with these people to continue the birthday celebration. Apparently, due to the fact that they struggled to find me, that team took too much time and the other team won the race. One of the losing team members made a comment to me.
“Dawn, you are just so BENIGN. You totally blend in with the crowd. Nothing about you stands out.”
How would you take that? I don’t think he was trying to be mean. Why does this bother me so much. BENIGN…????? ME??? Huhh?

Fess up. Who are YOU?
Do I know you? Do you know me?
I see who comes here. Are you going to tell me you found my blog?
HOW you found my blog?
What do you think?

Leave a comment, will ya?

I am putting my fingers in my ears and humming.
LA LA LA LA LA LA LA
NO NO NO NO NO NO

SO WRONG!!!!!!
Everyone ASSUMED he was SAFE.
Did you NOT vote people?????
Dammit!!!!

I put in an offer. They rejected it. I counter-offered…they ACCEPTED!!
OH MY GOD..a home. A house. A place ALL mine. (and the banks of course)
I close on the 31st of May. The move will take place the weekend after.
I am freaking out. I am SO happy. I am so terrified.
I need to go pack.