Just a Foolish Woman
I don’t KNOW you. I have only heard about you. You have made choices that affect SO many lives. Selfish decisions. Foolish mistakes that will cost you so much more than you will probably ever realize. You made a decision to end your marriage for another man. A MARRIED other man. TWO families are now permanently altered.
You have bruised and wounded a very good man. A man who gave you everything and more. He loved you more than you loved him and that never equals out to be a real marriage. You had everything…everything any woman could ever want and you threw it away. You manipulated him to the point of still having full control even after your divorce was FINAL. You are a master game player. A liar and a cheater. How do you look at yourself in the mirror? How do you continue to lie to your children and convince yourself that doing so is OK?
Not only did you hurt him when you walked out but you continue to hurt him with your lies.
What are you teaching your children? Your daughter…you are showing her that money is the most important thing in the world. That only looking out for your own personal gain is the right thing to do? Your son…that a woman will just leave if she meets another man? It may take years of therapy to erase some of these things for them. Maybe the money you are so undeservingly getting should be put aside for that! -oh that’s right- you will probably need to get your hair and nails done. Sorry kids!
I know- your all probably shouting at me that there are always TWO sides to every story!… that it takes TWO to make it and two to break it…yada yada yada.
I am sorry but I just don’t see it in this case. Did he work to hard? Did he not do everything you asked? (even calling YOUR parents to give them YOUR side of the story because you have no spine?)
As a single gal that is divorced myself-I blame you! I blame you for screwing with this mans head and heart! I blame women LIKE you that make us ALL look bad. I am angry that he may never trust another woman again. That he may never open himself up to care about another woman. That is your final act of total injustice. You get to move on and be happy and he gets nothing.
You are the most FOOLISH woman I don’t know.
